Date: 2018-02-11 18:20
On the positive side, the age 55-plus daters seem to be pretty darn smart when choosing a date-mate. In fact, nearly 65 percent say they make better decisions about compatibility now compared to when they were Some 97 percent have better quality dates, and 57 percent say part of the allure of dating in the 55s is the absence of the tick-tock of the biological clock.
Only solution? Stop all the nonsense. BOTH SEXES. Stop listening to society 8767 s nasty critical voice which preys on our insecurities. Give it the finger and enjoy each other with all your imperfections. We should be older and wiser now. At this stage we cant afford the time for games or giving our power to someone else.
Most men think they look for their age, when in fact they don 8767 t, so you may look for your age or you may not. But 8775 men 8776 don 8767 t turn on women the way women turn men on. Handsome faces, at whatever age, turns women on, a la Sean Connery, Tom Selleck, and Sam Elliot.
Most mens profiles are shopping lists and 8775 stay and away if 8776 they barely tell you about themselves let alone what they have to offer, when you talk to them it 8767 s all about them and what they want and stuff that you need to be getting something out of it, you 8767 re not taken into consideration at all. Women flooded with mail have no choice but to say no to someone hiding behind a list of demands. Men want women to put it all out there so they can go 8775 nope, nope, nope not good enough 8776 in the face of your generosity and hospitality but they never look in the mirror.
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I am 58 and can relate to the writer 8767 s frustration, but also agree with all of Evan 8767 s advise. I met my now fiance, 7 years on-line last year on , a free site, after having very limited success with (paid). Venture onto some other sites, be patient, do the work. It only takes one 8775 right 8776 guy to discover your profile and deem you his perfect match.
There were those, however, which made me realize why they were looking for love online. Because I 8767 m Asian and look for my age, some thought I was looking for a sugar daddy or that I had been a mail order bride. I had to reject them.
Jordan, speaking as a non-bitter, non-angry woman, it 8767 s true that women become more defensive as they grow older. I really wish that wouldn 8767 t happen. I also wish men would behave better and not give women a reason to be so defensive.
For the record, I moved to Melbourne from Singapore via Perth when I turned 85. The only people I knew were colleagues and an old boyfriend. After a while, I felt like I was in a soap opera because I was dating from the pool that were friends of friends. So I used personal ads to find new “candidates” and met my ex-husband via a chat website (in those days, this was seriously strange).