Date: 2017-11-15 13:54
Nature didn't takes it's course as it did over years for us to connect over a wire. That just doesn't work, period. She can be however interested if you got a smooth talk and decent pictures. Most of the time a woman is not self aware of what she wants and gets bored with the chat because they thrive on emotion, unlike us men. But in the end you need to be your own man in the real world and become the best version of yourself. Attraction is not a conscious choice, meaning a women can't control to who she is attracted to. Just take care of yourself, read self improvement books. Go buy "Mind lines" from Michael Hall and educate yourself to create a healthy view of the world and stay away from negative news and media.
Has it occurred to you that your list of "Don'ts" is off-putting mansplaining? Do you think this projects a positive image of you to potential dates?
Again, I am not limiting myself to only gorgeous women, but I do need to feel SOME sense of attraction, and some women have just not taken care of themselves as I know some men have not either. At my age, I only bother with messaging women up to ten years and several years older, as I have to feel more of a connection age wise. I hate to be harsh, but the years are harsh on some women. Again, a woman does not have to be gorgeous at all, but if my first feeling is that a woman's picture depicts someone who was a woman in a previous life, then I naturally go to the next profile. Since I still enjoy cross country skiing and cycling, then women who have interests limited to restaurants and being a spectator, then I likewise will pass, regardless of attraction.
Probably because some other woman was more willing to meet up and cut in front of you without the needless back and forth.
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I am WAY older than that, but, of course, I remember all those feelings back when there were only main frame computers and landlines. Back when women's lib was just getting going in the 75's. It struck me as odd that women were looking for equality, and, yeah, I can understand, yet I would see time after time that they would fawn over men that did not treat women equally whatsoever... the same women going for the "bad boys" ... hasn't changed.
Saying that women having a clitoris with nerve endings.. no different in its innervation than the male organs.. means that women are NOT wired for monogamy is seriously hilarious. her other comments about genetics and bonobos is equally amusing.
Having tried internet dating and meetup, I personally prefer "live and in person" approach to finding a match. Here is a point by point breakdown of the two different approaches.
You almost have to appear uninterested to get them to be interested in you. I would also suggest that you are often seen around other women. They want someone who is in demand, not the guy who no girls want. It's a jealousy thing, and it is very true, so use it to your advantage - regardless of how sexist, mysogninistc, ect feminists say it is.
So you would like "hey how are you?You are really attractive!". Is that a conversation that seems like it's going to go somewhere?